Dear Resa

Hello Beautiful. 

I heard you're sad about a guy. 

I wanted to tell you that he doesn't matter. 

In the scheme of your life, with the events that have yet to transpire, in the lives of the people you have yet to inspire, he doesn't matter. 

I know he does now. 

And he's a fool to reject the affection of a girl he'll never understand. 

But he's just another wrong guy. 

And I know you know that. 

You've loved lots of wrong guys before which should make this easier. 

But I know it doesn't. 

You're in it now and it's distracting you. 

Don't let it. 

Remember that the only reason you went to see him was because of what that other guy did to you. 

It's circumstantial and temporary. 

There will be other guys. 

There will even be the right one. 

And he will be strong enough to receive your love. 

I know you think it matters whether he comes to your show or not.

But seeing you won't change his mind. 

Seeing you won't change anything. 

He already knows you're talented. 

He already knows you're beautiful. 

It doesn't matter. 

Stop feeling and start thinking. 

You're no one's cast off. 

You aren't their last priority.

You're not the person who tolerates being ignored. 

He is not worthy. 

He treats you with the same regard and care as a one night stand. 

Are you worried about whether your one night stands are coming to see your show?

No. 

Of course not. 

And the reaction you just had at the mere thought of it?

That's the same way you should think of him. 

He is a stranger. 

He doesn't know you. 

Not an ounce. 

He doesn't want to know you.

The people who care about you, who matter, who you matter to, they find a way to have you in their life. 

And you have to, you Must. Stop. exhausting your energy on people who don't love you. 

You can't make someone care.  

You can't make someone let you in who wants to push you away. 

He said he didn't know why you were trying so hard to hold on because he knows there is nothing to hold on to 

Listen to him.

Don't let him make you afraid to be who you are. 

He doesn't admire your honesty. 

It overwhelms him. 

That doesn't mean you should stop telling the truth. 

Be strong. 

Be bold. 

Be courageously the wild fire you are. 

Be a tempest. 

The right man will see he can't calm you or quiet you but can only run with you. 

I know it hurts but a year from now you'll forget how important you thought this was. 

Embrace what is, hold tight to what you do have. 

Love tirelessly. 

And the people who won't accept it, are wrong for YOU.

Not the other way 'round. 

This is your story. 

Be the star. 

Be exactly all you are, doll. 

I promise all will work out as it should. 

I promise.